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How can we make our families strong—bulletproof—against the constant attacks from our culture? Well, for starters, strong families always start with solid marriages. So, let’s begin at the beginning.

Genesis 2:24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Marriage has always been God’s idea. He created man and woman and placed them together in a garden. God’s instructions for this relationship are the only ones that will work. Yesterday we considered what it means to “leave” our father and mother. Today let’s consider the meaning of “united to” or “hold fast to.”

UNITED TO HUSBAND/WIFE

The Hebrew word translated “united to” means “to stick to something” or “to grasp something and not let go.” In Scripture, it is used to describe the skin clinging to the bones. It is used for a warrior who has fought so long and hard that his hand is frozen to (united to) his sword. When used to describe a relationship, this word speaks of a lifelong commitment. Jesus said, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate” (Mark 10:9 NIV).

Questions for married couples:

1. Are you taking your vows of marriage seriously?
2. Is ending the commitment (divorce) an option?
3. Are you committed to your husband/wife for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer; in sickness and in health, for as long as you both shall live?

Questions for young adults:

1. Do you believe marriage is a lifelong commitment?
2. Are you committed to marriage for as long as you both shall love or for as long as you both shall live?
3. Are you willing to care for the person you plan to marry, even in physical illness, mental illness, or disability?

Father, help us take vows we voluntarily say before you very seriously. Give us the courage of commitment. Give us the strength to stay…no matter what. In Jesus’ name. Amen.